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Couples Conversation Cards
Thirty-six questions in three levels, from easy date-night openers to gentle repair conversations. Print them for the table, or draw one right here on your phone.
36 cards + card backsUS Letter · 6 pagesPoker size 2.5 × 3.5 in
Preview
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What's a small thing I do that makes your day better?
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If we had a free Saturday with no plans, how would you spend it?
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What song takes you straight back to when we met?
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What's a meal you'd happily eat every single week?
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What's something new you'd like us to try together?
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Which friends do we laugh the most with, and why?
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What did you love doing as a kid that you'd still enjoy now?
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Where would you go for a weekend if money didn't matter?
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Draw a card right now
No printer? Pass the phone around the table. Cards don't repeat until you've seen them all.
How to use them
- Light cards are for any night. Take turns drawing.
- Closer cards are for a slower evening. Answer, then ask one follow-up question.
- Repair cards are for a calm moment after a disagreement, never in the middle of one.
- Pass on any card, no explanation needed.
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Light
What's a small thing I do that makes your day better?
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Light
If we had a free Saturday with no plans, how would you spend it?
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Light
What song takes you straight back to when we met?
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Light
What's a meal you'd happily eat every single week?
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Light
What's something new you'd like us to try together?
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Light
Which friends do we laugh the most with, and why?
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Light
What did you love doing as a kid that you'd still enjoy now?
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Where would you go for a weekend if money didn't matter?
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What's the best gift you've ever received?
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What made you smile this week?
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What's a tradition you'd like us to start?
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What's your favourite photo of us, and why?
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Closer
When do you feel most like a team with me?
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What's something you're carrying that I might not know about?
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How do you most like to be comforted when you're stressed?
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What's a dream you've put on hold?
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What did you learn about love from your family growing up?
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Closer
What's one question you wish I asked you more often?
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When do you feel most appreciated by me?
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What part of our life together are you proudest of?
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What's a worry you have about the future?
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What does “home” feel like to you?
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What's one way I've grown since we met?
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What do you need a little more of from me right now?
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Repair
Is there an argument we keep having? What's it really about for you?
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What helps you calm down when we disagree?
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What do you need from me in the first five minutes after a fight?
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Is there something I said recently that stuck with you?
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How can we tell when one of us needs a break from a hard talk?
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What's one thing you'd like us to handle differently next time?
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What pause word could we both use when things heat up?
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Repair
When did we repair something well? What worked?
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Is there something you've been meaning to apologise for?
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What would “fighting fair” look like for us?
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Repair
How do you like to make up: words, touch, time or space?
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What's one promise we could make about how we argue?
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Questions
How do I print the cards?
Download the PDF and print on US Letter card stock at 100% scale. Each page holds nine poker-size cards (2.5 × 3.5 in). Print the backs page on the reverse if you'd like matching backs, then cut along the guides.
Are these good for date night?
Yes. Start with the Light cards for an easy date night, then move to Closer when you have more time.
Can couples in a rough patch use them?
The Repair cards are written for calm moments after a disagreement. If things feel unsafe, please reach out to a counsellor or a local support line rather than relying on cards.