Open When Letters
A bundle of letters, each for a different moment: “open when you miss me”, “open when we've had a fight”. Pick your envelopes, write from the prompts, and print the labels.
Pick your envelopes
Write: Describe a favourite memory together in detail.
Write: Write something calming, or a short story about us.
Write: Write down an inside joke or your most embarrassing moment together.
Write: Remind them you're on the same side and what you love about them.
Write: List five things you admire about them.
Write: Tell them what you've seen them overcome.
Write: Write what this year with them has meant.
Write: Remind them why they started.
Write: Ask them to write back and tell you why.
Write: Suggest a cozy date idea for the next rainy day.
Write: Write a breathing exercise and three reassuring truths.
Write: Be specific. Small details mean the most.
Write: Share a favourite holiday memory and a wish for next year.
Write: Write a list of things to do together.
Write: Describe the hug you'd give them.
Write: Tell them exactly what they're good at.
Write: Retell the story of how you met.
Write: Remind them who loves them.
Write: Tell them you're proud of them too, and why.
Write: Give them a pep talk.
Write: Write your hopes for the year together.
Write: Include three date ideas they can choose from.
Write: Write a get-well note and a list of comfort shows.
Write: Describe what makes your relationship good.
How to make them
- Choose 6 to 24 moments and print the labels.
- Write each letter by hand using the prompt.
- Seal each one and stick on its label.
- Tie them together with ribbon, or keep them in a box.
More guided letters
Questions
What are open when letters?
A set of sealed letters, each labelled for a moment like “open when you miss me”. Your partner opens the right one when that moment comes.
How many open when letters should I write?
Anywhere from 6 to 24. Even a small set of six well-written letters makes a meaningful gift.
Are these good for long distance?
Yes. Open when letters are especially popular for long-distance couples and deployments.