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What is urge surfing?

Urge surfing is a mindfulness technique for cravings: instead of fighting the urge or giving in, you notice it rise, peak and fall like a wave, without acting on it.

Urge surfing — Urge surfing is a mindfulness technique for cravings: instead of fighting the urge or giving in, you notice it rise, peak and fall like a wave, without acting on it.

In more detail

The term is associated with psychologist G. Alan Marlatt's work on relapse prevention. The idea is that cravings are temporary, and that watching one closely makes it easier to ride out.

Most people's experience is that a craving builds, peaks and then fades within minutes. Fighting it hard can make it feel bigger; noticing it with curiosity often makes it pass sooner.

It works best combined with practical changes: knowing your triggers, having a plan for them, and something to do with your hands and breath while the wave passes.

What to do about it

  1. Notice where you feel the craving in your body and name it: 'there's the urge'.
  2. Rate it 1–10 and breathe slowly while you watch it.
  3. Rate it again every minute or so. Notice it change.
  4. Afterwards, log the trigger. Patterns make the next one easier to plan for.
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Questions people ask

Does urge surfing work for vaping?
It's widely used for nicotine and other cravings. It doesn't replace medical support, which can make quitting easier.
How long does a craving last?
For many people the peak passes within a few minutes. Your own log will show your pattern.

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