2-minute quiz · 7 questions
What's Your Conflict Style?
Everyone argues. How you argue is a pattern, and patterns can change. Take it alone, then send it to your partner and compare.
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The Advocate
You say what you think.
You say what you think.
The Bridge-Builder
You look for the answer that works for both of you.
You look for the answer that works for both of you.
The Dealmaker
Fair is your favourite word.
Fair is your favourite word.
The Pauser
You need space before you can talk.
You need space before you can talk.
The Peacekeeper
You'll give a lot to make things calm again.
You'll give a lot to make things calm again.
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Questions
Where do these five styles come from?
They're loosely based on a well-known model of five conflict modes (competing, collaborating, compromising, avoiding and accommodating), written in everyday language for couples.
Is one conflict style the best?
No. Each has strengths. Couples tend to do best when each person can step outside their default when the moment needs it.
Should we both take it?
Yes. Send the link to your partner, then compare. Knowing each other's default makes the next disagreement easier.
Is my answer saved or sent anywhere?
No. The quiz runs in your browser, and nothing is sent or stored.