Second Date Guide › 20 Second Date Ideas
20 Second Date Ideas
Ideas that give you something to do and plenty of room to talk, from free to a bit of a treat.
Coffee and a walk · $Low pressure, easy to extend if it’s going well.
A cooking class · $$Something to do with your hands takes pressure off conversation.
Mini golf or bowling · $Playful competition shows how someone handles losing.
A farmers market · $Wander, taste, talk; built-in conversation starters.
Museum or gallery late night · $–$$Lots to react to, and quieter than a bar.
A short hike with a view · FreeSide-by-side talking is easier than face-to-face.
Cook dinner together · $Only if you both feel comfortable meeting at home.
Trivia night · $Teamwork, laughs and a natural end time.
Watch the sunset somewhere high · FreeGolden hour does a lot of the work. Check the time first.
A bookshop then a café · $Pick a book for each other.
Pottery or paint night · $$Make something, then compare the results.
Ice skating · $Hand-holding happens naturally.
A food truck crawl · $Variety, movement and easy decisions.
Live local music · $–$$Something new for both of you.
Board game café · $Shows how someone plays, which tells you a lot.
Picnic in a park · $Bring one favorite snack each.
An arcade bar · $Instant nostalgia and things to talk about.
Stargazing · FreeFind a dark spot and a clear night; bring a blanket.
Brunch · $$Daytime, relaxed and easy to keep short.
Volunteer together · FreeMeaningful and memorable; plan it ahead.
Planning a sunset date? Look up tonight’s sunset and golden hour for your city first.
Questions
What is a good second date?
Something a little longer and more active than the first date, with room to talk: a market, a class, a walk somewhere scenic or a casual dinner.
Who should pay on a second date?
Whatever you’re both comfortable with. Offering to split or taking turns is common; just talk about it plainly.